Outing: a form of Cyber Bullying
What is Outing? Outing is a form of cyberbullying where someone shares your private information or messages without your consent. This often involves forwarding or posting private messages online. The person behind this is usually someone you know, and the impact of such actions can be severe.
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How to Deal with Outing
Ask the Perpetrator to Remove the Content: Contact the person who shared your information and ask them to remove it. If it's a child, consider speaking to their parents for support.
Keep Evidence: Save screenshots or copies of the messages as evidence. This will help when reporting the cyberbullying.
Report to the Platform: If the information was shared on social media, contact the platform to report and request the removal of the content. Platforms have built-in reporting processes.
Avoid Monitoring the Content: Try not to monitor the comments and feedback on the shared information, as this can cause more distress.
Accept That the Information is Public: Understand that the information is now public. Seek support to come to terms with this and find ways to cope.
If You Are Being Bullied
Know It’s Not Your Fault: Bullying is a result of the bully’s personal issues, not something you caused.
Reach Out for Help: Talk to someone you trust, like a friend, relative, or trusted adult. Sharing your feelings can help you process what’s happening.
Don’t Respond or Retaliate: Reacting can give the bully power and escalate the situation. If possible, remove yourself from the situation or use humor to disarm the bully.
Tell the Person to Stop: If you feel comfortable, tell the bully to stop. Practicing with someone you trust can help you feel more confident.
Use Available Tools: Block the person on social media apps and report the harassment. This won't stop it immediately but can reduce exposure.
Advice for Parents and Caregivers
Listen to Them: Give your child space to share their experience without interrupting. Let them talk in their own way and avoid making them feel embarrassed.
Don’t Deny Access to Technology: Reassure your child that their device won’t be taken away if they speak up about online issues. This encourages them to seek help.
Talk to Their School: Schools play a crucial role in addressing bullying. Provide the school with evidence and discuss the situation together with your child.
Contact the Police if Necessary: If your child is in immediate danger or there are direct threats, don’t hesitate to call the police.
Seek Expert Support There are several organizations that specialize in supporting bullying victims. Consider reaching out to one of these for help and support:
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